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An Outlaw And A Lady

January 19, 2017, by JimC

She was a lady
When a lady wasn’t easy to be
Hangin’ in limbo
She started hangin’ with me…
“The Wild Ones” — Waylon Jennings

Waylon Jennings absolutely adored his wife Jessi Colter. It is easy to see in photographs and it was plain as day every time I saw them perform together. But being married to Waylon could not have been an easy road to walk.
He was a Wild One, alright. A blizzard of cocaine. Women. Jessi said he was a hard dog to keep on the porch, and, as he often did, he confessed his sins in song…

I’ve got a good woman
What’s the matter with me?
What makes me want to love every woman I see?
I was travelin’ when I met her now I’m travelin’ again
And every woman she sees looks like a place I came in…
— “Waymore’s Blues”

Now Jessi is telling her story, in an April 2017 release entitled, An Outlaw and A Lady.

Renowned songwriter, singer, and wife of Waylon Jennings writes an intimate, enormously entertaining memoir of American music, of life with Waylon and the Outlaws, and of faith lost and found.

The daughter of a Pentecostal evangelist and a race-car driver, Jessi Colter played piano and sang in church before leaving Arizona to tour with rock-n-roll pioneer Duane Eddy, whom she married. Colter became a successful recording artist, appearing on American Bandstand and befriending stars such as the Everly Brothers and Chet Atkins, while her songs were recorded by Nancy Sinatra, Dottie West, and others. Her marriage to Eddy didn’t last, however, and in 1969 she married the electrifying Waylon Jennings.

Together, they made their home in Nashville which in the 1970s, was ground zero for roots music, drawing Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Willie Nelson, Kris Kristofferson, Shel Silverstein, and others to the Nashville Sound. And Jessi was at the center of it all, the only woman on the landmark Wanted: The Outlaws album, the record that launched the Outlaw Country genre and was the first country album to go platinum. She also tasted personal commercial success with the #1-single “I’m Not Lisa.”

But offstage, life was a challenge, as Waylon pursued his addictions and battled his demons. Having drifted from the church as a young woman, Jessi returned to her faith and found in it a source of strength in the turmoil of living with Waylon. In the 1980s, Waylon helped launch the super group The Highwaymen with Willie Nelson, Johnny Cash, and Kris Kristofferson, and the hits kept rolling, as did Waylon’s reckless living. Amid it all, Jessi faithfully prayed for her husband until finally, at Thanksgiving 2001, Waylon found Jesus, just months before he died.

An Outlaw and a Lady is a powerful story of American music, of love in the midst of heartache, and of faith that sustains.

I will be reading it, and tipping my hat to ALL of the good-hearted women who love us in spite of ourselves.

 

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Comments

  1. deuce says

    January 19, 2017 at 8:58 am

    What a fine, strong woman.

    Reply
    • JimC says

      January 19, 2017 at 9:00 am

      Yep.

      Reply
  2. Keith West says

    January 19, 2017 at 9:19 am

    I’m going to have to get this one. Waylon is from this area, and I don’t know much about him.

    Reply
    • JimC says

      January 19, 2017 at 9:24 am

      From the suburb of a cotton patch, as he used to say.

      Reply
  3. Matthew says

    January 19, 2017 at 10:04 am

    “The daughter of a Pentecostal evangelist and a race-car driver,”

    She’s from the South alright.

    Is it just me or do musicians not make good husbands (or occasionally wives: Courtney Love)?

    Reply
    • JimC says

      January 19, 2017 at 10:16 am

      “The daughter of a Pentecostal evangelist and a race-car driver,”

      She’s from the South alright.

      Yeah, is that perfect or what?
      Re: Musicians as spouses. It’s a tough gig marriage-wise — a LOT of time away from home, a lot of drink and dope ready to hand. And women really do dig a guy with a guitar, so there are many opportunities to stray. Myself, I play close to home, quit drinking almost 18 years ago, and my wife is all that, so all is quiet on the country-western front.

      And she just laughs and shakes her head when I play “Waymore’s Blues”…

      Reply
      • Matthew says

        January 19, 2017 at 10:47 am

        You know after I posted that I thought: Wait, Jim’s a musician. Is he going to get upset?

        I imagine you are correct. There is also what people bring to the table without the problems of the music business. Both John Lennon and Frank Sinatra had issues before they began their careers. Also, I’m pretty sure fame does bad things to people psychologically.

        Reply
        • JimC says

          January 19, 2017 at 10:53 am

          John Lennon was a piece of work. I’m always amused when people promote him as an icon of peace and love. He was a nasty drunk.

          Reply
  4. deuce says

    January 19, 2017 at 11:53 am

    “a LOT of time away from home, a lot of drink and dope ready to hand. And women really do dig a guy with a guitar”

    I’ll testify to that. Never a huge issue for me since I’ve never been married, but I’ve definitely seen it wreck others’ marriages. Lemmy recognized the pitfalls and never tied the knot. He didn’t think it was fair to whomever he might marry and he also believed marriage wasn’t conducive to good rock n’ roll.

    Reply
    • JimC says

      January 19, 2017 at 12:19 pm

      Ah, yes, the flip side of the coin… Is marriage good for music?

      Reply
  5. Thom Eley says

    January 19, 2017 at 12:44 pm

    Only two of The Highwaymen left. I like their music.

    Reply
    • JimC says

      January 19, 2017 at 12:50 pm

      Mt. Rushmore.

      Reply

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